Resulting from an impulse Cudo Voucher purchase, this morning I took Father for a breakfast cruise in a paddle boat on the River Murray. The breakfast was a bit average, but it’s the experience that one pays for rather than the food. We received a glass of local sparking wine at the start of our meal (pleasant but sweet), but were told that coffee is not included and must be paid for at $5.00 a mug.
Just as we were about to board the boat, the sole partially detached itself from my right shoe and I flapped my way up the gangplank. These shoes, a beautifully comfortable pair of Rockport walkers, belonged to my mother. After her death in 2003, they found their way into my wardrobe and for the first time since leaving school I found myself wearing black lace-ups. I have derived an enormous amount of comfort from those shoes, both physical and emotional I think that I even wrote a poem in the early days titled ‘Walking in my Mother’s Shoes’.
Ever a sandal wearer in both winter and summer, it was a hesitant transition to these shoes but now I love them. I was adamant therefore that when the soles wore out, they had to be replaced. Re-soling is a tricky exercise and in my sad experience often not a success. Slicing off the old sole is tricky and bonding a new sole in its place likewise problematic. It frequently separates from the shoe again as the bonding does not hold under the stresses of walking. Frustrating when the upper is still in such good condition. Perhaps the shoes should be discarded but they are one of my last tangible links to my mother.
The river is relishing the break of the drought, but still flows gently. As the Captain told us several times, it is the slowest flowing river in the driest continent. The banks are lined with Willows, planted by early river boat captains, who used them as delineators of the river bank. In times of flood, when the river spread sideways for huge distances, the trees marked the deep river channel so that boats which had ventured into new waterways could find their way back to the river and the deep water.
The boat was smaller than I expected. Somehow, the mention of paddle boat brought to mind an image of a massive paddle steamer, playing the Murray tourist trade with faded genteel luxury. The boat on which we found ourselves was much smaller – intimate even and built in the late 1970s. It operates seven days a week servicing the tourist and corporate trade, with the Captain and his wife making their home on the lower deck.
It was misting with rain on the river, the day a mixture of greys and murky greens. The brighter colour of the Willows provided contrast and relief. Father gave me a potted analysis of the geological history of the cliffs as we passed, analysisng the sandwiched stratas. Also the history of the river going back pillions of years when perhaps it followed a different path. In those days, Australia was still connected to Antarctica.
We passed an old house on the cliff top, two straggly looking palm trees framing the view from the river. We were told that at the time of Federation, the government gave two palm trees to the houses that lived along the river at that time, to be planted in commemoration of the great event.
I excitedly pointed out the high voltage transmission lines that straddled the river as we glided underneath. Not many people get excited about these giant-like metallic towers that dominate the landscape in stark silhouette. In my day job, I acquire land for substations and easements for transmission lines like this and I have learnt to appreciate the geometry and strength of those towers.
I have seen Scandinavian designs of towers in the form of a line of giant men, striding over the landscape and holding the wires aloft with their arms. Brilliant. Each tower depicts a different phase of the stride. I hope they get built some day. There can still be art form in utility structures.
We watched the river birds, their take-offs and landings and discussed the merits of various river-front houses and houseboats. We passed houseboats with clotheslines and dog kennels, Australian flags, solar panels and mini wind turbines. Some were obviously occupied by permanent residents rather than holiday renters.
I nearly cancelled this trip, thinking that father would not be well enough. He has perked up significantly after his recent hospitalisation with Serum Sickness and the severe allergic reaction is abating. The Asbestosis is apparent in the breathy response to any exertion, but he is stoic about that. Stoic is one of the terms that I used to describe him in my Memorial Reflection blog. I’m glad that I didn’t cancel and that we got to do the trip together.