De-cluttering (see earlier blog). What a surprise – progress is slow! Much slower than I anticipated. I keep getting sidetracked on associated issues, like sorting through boxes of mixed up Lego. I have re-assembled kits and reconnected the bits with their instructions and boxes. The balance, I have sorted into colours or like pieces (i.e all the wheels together) and stored them all in cliplok bags. Once I had done all of this, I was still in a quandary. Do I keep it, sell it, or give it away? Some of the bigger kits are worth a couple of hundred dollars on eBay. In the end, it was stored carefully into large plastic storage boxes and put back into the attic. Those boxes are along side other boxes containing the train set and similar multi-componented toys.
And so it has been – sort, classify and decide on disposal. I still have stored in that attic things like boxes of linen and towels, old dinner sets and household bits and pieces that I have always thought that young Donald might use when he leaves home. I have this underlying concern that as soon as I dispose of these items, they may be required.
I must have around twenty of these boxes in the attic now. They contain much-loved clothes from earlier decades, each with their own memories. Perhaps one day I will have granddaughters who will enjoy exploring their contents, and might give those designer labels an airing again. There are boxes of quilting fabrics that I will use one day. Boxes of other craft items. Boxes of bedding and quilts – we have had many different bed configurations in the house over the years and have retained the blankets and quilts, even though the beds may have gone.
I also have a large plastic box that is the ‘picnic basket’. In theory, I can just grab this and go, but I should check its contents and their cleanliness etc before the next trip. It has plastic plates and cutlery, chopping board, sharp knives, can opener, bottle opener, scissors, tea towel, washing up brush and detergent, tea, coffee, salt, pepper, storage bags and items of this nature. So handy to have it all together and it just needs checking now and then for currency.
I have all the travel items in the attic as well. Suitcases and wheelie bags and back-packs and sleeping bags and packing cells. I love the packing cells that I discovered a few years back. It makes the organisation of packing so much easier. Of course these things are not in boxes but are tumbled in their own corner, along side the sporting equipment that is rarely used and in fact hardly ever was. There are still the tennis racquets and the boogie board and the cricket bats and those sorts of things – just in case.
As I write this, it is apparent to me that I was always equipping our house for a larger family – in my mind there would be children coming and going and ‘doing things’. The reality was that I only had the one child, and he was very non-sporty and as there were no other children of similar age growing up in our immediate locality, he didn’t do a lot of outdoor stuff either. It is a warning not to place too much emotional anticipation on the advent of grandchildren.
I also have heaps of financial records, the sort that should be kept for 7 years. I haven’t addressed them as yet but I am sure that there are some older years now that can be culled. Stored on those racks (I have heaps of metal shelving racks in the attic as well) is lots of stationery and study notes from various courses over the years. That could do with critical evaluation. Many of the notes are probably out of date.
Sounds as though I have kept everything, doesn’t it? I have still managed to give away a lot of items – furniture, books, clothing, and toys. Some has gone to friends and some has been disposed of via Freecycle. There are other items, that I have had for many years, that I have decided to dispose of via auction. There is a lovely brass art nouveau fire tool set. I have always loved the lady, but I don’t have a fire and don’t have a use for this item. It has just been stored in the attic.
And then there is the antique phone that I have had since around 1980. It still has the inner workings and my techie brother-in-law tells me that it could be made to work again, in a limited fashion. Again this has just been sitting in the attic for years and I have to ask myself of what value it is stuck up there.
Another item that I will be very pleased to see go to a new home is a Dexter Rocking Chair that was left here by a lodger and never re-claimed. He had promised someone to french polish it and it has been sitting on my back verandah for around five years. I feel so sorry for the person who originally owned it as they must have done a lot of work in stripping it but I have no way of knowing who they are or contacting them.
Another aspect to the de-cluttering is sorting out all the stuff left by lodgers. Mostly this is clothing and shoes, but also electrical items, tools, fishing gear and of course antique rocking chairs.
One task that I was not looking forward to was de-cluttering my computer. There will still be junk data files lurking in corners but I have deleted a lot of dead software and many folders also that have not been access for a long time. In part, I had to do this as I am running out of storage space but in part I want to de-clutter before my next computer upgrade. I felt very virtuous after I had spent the time on this.
So what of my transitional son? I have received the odd text but I haven’t seen him since my last post. He was supposed to come home last night (with Daisy) but did not turn up. Perhaps today.