Do you find that some words resonate with you more than others? There may be a context in which the word has been used that has an influencing memory for you, or perhaps you just don’t like the way it sounds. Lugubrious is a word that is as mournful as its meaning and will never provide an emotional uplift. Perhaps it suits you though when you are feeling blue.
I have been reflecting on words and have realised that for me, not all words are created equal. Some I quite like and some I definitely do not. It is by no means comprehensive but I have made a brief list of some that have achieved favoured status and some which have not. I am sure that there will be words that you could add to the lists, based on your own perceptions.
Bespoke The term comes from England where it originally referred to custom or tailor-made clothing. In recent years the term has been applied to information technology and refers to custom services or products. I would love to be able to afford bespoke clothing from a quality tailor.
Discombobulating Throwing into a state of confusion. I never use this word because I probably won’t remember all the syllables but it still fascinates me. Use it and you will certainly throw your listeners or readers into a state of confusion so its very use would be discombobulating. Perhaps I should practice it a bit. Watch out for my next blog.
Pithy Concise and to the point. Should be more of it.
Recalcitrant Marked by stubborn resistance to and defiance of authority or guidance. As one who has never warmed to the direction of authority, this word describes how I often feel when being told what to do. My son exhibits a significant level of juvenile recalcitrance.
Segue seg-wey The smooth transition from one topic to the next. If tongue is pronounced tung, why isn’t segue pronounced seg? Besides being applied to the transition of a discussion, I have heard it being used in relation to dancers, who make the transition from one style of dancing to another. It has always sounded quite bizarre to me (though a graceful word) and perhaps that is why I like it.
Dude Pretentious and sounds odd on the lips of young people. Mostly used by kids who are searching for a sense of self and looking to portray a sense of coolness and one of the gang. I’m not hung up about this but just notice that it does not sit comfortably on the lips of many users.
Frigid This is a word that has become an instrument of abuse and denigration. Of course I don’t like it.
Senescent I am not ageing, I am senescent. It has a soft sibilant sound but is a little too close to senile so I think that I will relegate this word to the back benches.
Synergistic I was liaising with an architect once, whose conversation was peppered with this word and I developed an aversion to it.
Wellness This is a word that surfaced in the last decade or two and is used extensively by the alternative health industry to promote skills and products – wellness as opposed to illness. To me it smacks of chicanery and I will not patronise any business that promotes itself with this word.
Words themselves contain so much power. They wound, they delight, they draw us together. As a celebrant, I love the power of the words that I use in ceremonies, but I will leave that story for another blog.